By Rolena Hadwiger, MPH Prevention Manager
Youth ages 12 to 17 named “drugs as the most important problem they face”—more than social pressures, violence, crime, or nay other issues. The 2005 Iowa Youth Survey states that among youth surveyed in Iowa, 4% of 6th graders, 14% of 8th graders, and 41% of 11th graders reported currently using alcohol.
Youth need adults’ guidance and support. Rolena Hadwiger, Prairie Ridge Prevention Services Manager stated that evidence show that youth who learn from a parent about the risks of alcohol, tobacco, or other drugs are less likely to use these substances than youth who had not talked with a parent about drugs.
According to research, youth credit their parents as a major factor in their decision of not using alcohol, tobacco, or other drugs. Get into the habit of talking with your youth everyday. Ask questions: what, with whom, for how long, and where. Get to know their friends whom they spend time with and the other parents.
Remember, youth with boundaries are less likely to use drugs. To help keep our youth drug free, here are some tips:
F Establish and maintain good communication with your youth. Talk with them about alcohol, tobacco, and illegal drugs and listen to their pressures and problems.
F Get involved in your youth’s life. Get to know their strengths and accept them for their unique talents and personalities. Provide love, support, and encouragement.
F Make clear rules and enforce them with consistency and appropriate consequences. Be clear and consistent in your expectations, rules, and messages.
F Be a positive role model. Provide an example consistent with what you say.
F Ask questions about what, with whom, for how long, and where. Get to know their friends whom they spend time with and the other parents, as well. Provide a drug-free environment for them to hangout especially during after-school.
Establishing a close relationship with your youth now will only make it easier for them to come to you when they have problems. Make time and ask questions. Your child is worth it.