INVOLVEMENT
I think the easiest way to help children through the Experiential Learning Process is to be involved with them as they do the activities. I tell people in my workshop that being involved is important for group management and that's true, but it is also important to help children do the activities, think about what they are experiencing and apply that in another area of their lives.
When you are involved, the questioning process of Experiential Learning gets simplified because you can see what they are experiencing and ask open ended questions about it. You can ask open ended questions about what they think is happening and help them brainstorm ways they've seen this experience used in other areas or help them use what they've done in a different way. But you have to be involved to help them catch the excitement and be engaged enough in the activity to think about it!