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Food for ME TOO: Nutrition for the toddler and preschooler

Getting off to a good start
Food habits begin at an early age and have lifelong implications. Good nutrition is essential for physical and emotional growth. A poorly nourished child may be restless, irritable, or more withdrawn than a well-nourished child. Limited food choices may prevent a child from having the nutrients or energy needed to promote growth and development in mental, social, and physical activities.

Common Eating Patterns
These descriptions illustrate how a child’s normal changes and growth patterns affect eating habits. These swings in behavior and growth rate can explain many of the diffi culties parents experience during development of a child’s eating patterns.

1 to 2 years

  • Appetite drops as growth slows
  • Learns to drink from cup, usually is weaned
  • May cut back to about 2 cups of milk daily
  • Learns to bring food to mouth with spoon
  • Likes to feed self but will likely need some help
  • Copies others and will eat many family foods
  • Cutting teeth and may have diffi culty chewing
  • Has acute taste buds and can detect slight differences in foods
  • Develops likes and dislikes; likes sweet foods
  • Likes to touch and play with food; responds to food texture
  • Learns to say “No” and becomes more independent

2 to 3 years

  • Has much improved muscle control; can use spoon and fork easily
  • Often desires and requests desserts and sweets
  • Will wait a little for requests to be fi lled
  • Usually will eat raw vegetables but may refuse salads
  • Finds green vegetables more acceptable
  • Can make simple either/or food choices: “Would you like a peach or pear?”

4 to 5 years

  • May return to food jags or go on food “strikes”
  • Influenced by others: other children, television ads, teachers, etc.
  • Likes plain cooking and foods separated on the plate
  • Dislikes most mixed food dishes and gravies
  • By age 5, often has fewer demands and will accept food available
  • Appetite is gradually increasing

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