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Parenting Together
Week 1 Be kind.
When you are tired remember that she is too. Pretend she is a good
friend that you haven't seen for a while. Greet her warmly in the
morning or when you both get home at night. Open doors for her.
Hold her when she cries. Resist the temptation to snap when you
are tired.
Week 2 Include her.
Talk about your dreams and plans for the kids. Talk about the family
schedule, your work, your activities and friends. Tell her how you
feel about something in the news. She wants to know what's important
to you. Make decisions together when possible.
Week 3 Make each day fun.
Find a way to make her laugh today. Maybe it's a funny story, a
dance around the kitchen or standing on your head! This tells her
you enjoy her company.
Week 4 Don't embarrass or put her
down.
This is the fastest way to kill a relationship. Exchanging insults
may be a way that guys show they care about each other, but don't
use this technique with her. Say "thank you for . . .",
"I appreciate. . . " and other ways to express encouragement.
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